I MAKE DREAMS COME TRUE. WHAT’S YOUR DREAM?
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• Nothing I do is good enough • It’s my fault. I am to blame • I’m a bad or evil person • I have to take care of others to get acceptance/approval/love • My needs do not matter. The needs of others are more important than mine • If I am powerful, I won’t be loved. I must play small and hold myself back • I am a failure. I will never amount to anything • I am stupid. Others are smarter than I am • I have to be smarter than others to be loved • I am unattractive • I am weak or sickly • I am unlikable, awkward, foolish, etc • The world is not a safe place. If I am not careful, I will be hurt • I show up for others, but no one shows up for me • Love is too scary. I am better off alone • I can’t do it by myself. I need someone to do it for me • I have to do it by myself. No one else can help • My ideas/opinion do not matter • When I trust the universe, I get smashed • If I stand up for myself, I won’t be loved • I will be rejected/humiliated if I ask for what I need•
This list of beliefs has been adapted from Paul Ferrini’s Healing Your Life e-book
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When we’ve been encouraged by coaches and counselors to control or to manage our thoughts and our feelings, this has sometimes lead to a short-term sense of accomplishment, when we lose 10 pounds or achieve another important goal, but control and management strategies never succeed in creating persistent happiness in the same way that an inflatable ball will always burst to the surface of the pool no matter how long we try to keep it submerged.
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